Gay Marriage: Our Mutual Joy | Newsweek.com
Excerpt:
Let's try for a minute to take the religious conservatives at their  
word and define marriage as the Bible does. Shall we look to Abraham,  
the great patriarch, who slept with his servant when he discovered his  
beloved wife Sarah was infertile? Or to Jacob, who fathered children  
with four different women (two sisters and their servants)? Abraham,  
Jacob, David, Solomon and the kings of Judah and Israel—all these  
fathers and heroes were polygamists. The New Testament model of  
marriage is hardly better. Jesus himself was single and preached an  
indifference to earthly attachments—especially family. The apostle  
Paul (also single) regarded marriage as an act of last resort for  
those unable to contain their animal lust. "It is better to marry than  
to burn with passion," says the apostle, in one of the most lukewarm  
endorsements of a treasured institution ever uttered. Would any  
contemporary heterosexual married couple—who likely woke up on their  
wedding day harboring some optimistic and newfangled ideas about  
gender equality and romantic love—turn to the Bible as a how-to script?
Of course not, yet the religious opponents of gay marriage would have  
it be so.
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